Everything in the universe has rhythm. Everything dances. - Maya Angelou

10.05.2003

question: are you a stronger person for walking away or for staying?

allow me to elaborate.

if you are in a relationship and its not working out, but you want it to work, are you stronger for walking away even though you don't want to, or for staying and trying to work it out?

julie and I were discussing it and decided it really depends on the person. if it it someone, like me, who is more likely to walk away because of a fear of future pain, then the strongest choice is to stay because it would take a lot more to get me to stay. if it is someone who always tries to make it work no matter what, then it would be stronger for them to walk away, because it goes against their natural inclinations.