As Aisha writes "Sex is not love. This is the single greatest mistake young women (and men) make in their lives. Sex. Is. Not. Love. Somehow, some grand cosmic joke has made women believe that letting a guy into their beds means letting them into our lives...

Sex leads to affection. Affection leads to attachment. Attachment leads to resentment. Resentment leads to hate...

Sex is not love.
Chocolate is love. And puppies. And TiVo.
Get it straight."

Aisha is so smart, but will we ever see the light or fall into the same trap over and over again?