this weekend i found out my class crush has a girl, one who is also in all my classes. yay. the thing is when i told all my friends, every single one of them blamed me. they told me i should have been more aggressive. that i should have done whatever she had done. that i didn't make the move. i know im bad at the game, but am i that bad? it seems like everyone knows what im doing wrong but no one is telling me. so tell me! also, is it always my job to make the move? or does it come down to he made the move, just not on me?